Must live half-awake, half-drunk人活一世
Some people say that one must live transparently in one lifetime. It is also said that a person must live half-awake, half-drunk, and half-naive, half-true, half-false, and half-confused.
In fact, whether you are transparent or confused, just live happily and be happy.
In real life, intelligence is indispensable, but sometimes, a little confusion is needed.
Ban Gu, a writer in the Eastern Han Dynasty, once said: People are divided into three classes. The lower class pretends to be smart, the middle class pretends to be honest, and the upper class pretends to be stupid.
If you are a little confused, if you don't tell the truth, you will be less caressing and worrying, and this will lead to a better life in your later years.
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Inferior people pretend to be smart
In many cases, people are too smart, which may not be a good thing.
As the saying goes: Nine out of ten shrewd people have suffered disasters in ancient and modern times.
People who are smart on the outside show their shrewdness on the outside and show off when they do things, but they often give people a sense of threat and are guarded against. In the end, they are often mistaken for being smart.
This is not the case with Wang Xifeng in "A Dream of Red Mansions". The mechanism was too clever, and Qingqing's life was missed.
Su Shi wrote in "Dongpo Sequel Xi'er": Everyone adopts a son who hopes to be smart, but I have been fooled by being smart all my life.
When a person is old, why does his tooth fall out but his tongue remains intact?
Because the reason why all the teeth are lost is because it is too strong and never shows weakness;
And the tongue is there because it knows when to show its soft side.
Taking a step back, the sea and the sky are broad, and the wind and waves are calm for a while.
It is not a wise move to strive for strength everywhere; only those who know how to keep the weak and hide the sharp are the truly powerful people.
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Middle-aged people pretend to be real
Xue Baochai in "A Dream of Red Mansions" is a typical person who "pretends to be real".
She seems to get along with everyone. She has a good personality, is unassuming, and can put herself in other people's shoes. She is also the most popular one.
In fact, when it comes to her own interests, she becomes very calculating.
She heard the two maids in the gazebo talk about some private things, and when she was smashed, she subconsciously put the blame on "Sister Lin", saying that she was looking for her, and disappeared in the blink of an eye.
A truly honest person would rather suffer a loss for himself than let others suffer a loss.
And shrewd people seem to be very kind to others, but they can't suffer a little loss, their hearts are full of calculations, and they don't want to get involved in things that have no benefit.
People who pretend to be honest seem to be smart, but they are actually deceiving themselves. After a long time, they will always show their feet and their reputation will be ruined.
There is an old saying: Lu Yao knows horsepower, and time sees people's hearts.
When interacting with people, you can only achieve a long-term win-win situation if you exchange your heart with your heart.
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Gentlemen pretend to be confused
Zheng Banqiao said: It is difficult to be smart, but it is difficult to be confused, and it is even more difficult to change from being smart to being confused.
Life in this world is unavoidable to be disturbed by wind and rain, and if you live too clearly, take everything seriously, and get entangled in everything, you will only fall into the whirlpool of troubles.
Learn to be a little confused in everything, but live an open-minded life.
In the Song Dynasty, there was a minister named Lu Duan, who was honest and upright all his life, and focused on court affairs. He was a good official who loved the country and the people.
When Song Taizong wanted to promote him as prime minister, Lu Duan refused because there was another minister, Kou Zhun, who was also a rare loyal minister.
At Lu Duan's suggestion, he and Kou Zhun were promoted to prime ministers at the same time. Because of this incident, many people in the court said that Lu Duan was "confused".
But it was because of Lu Duan's "confused" proposal that the two prime ministers got along well, the officials in the government and the opposition were in harmony, and the people lived and worked in peace and contentment.
Su Shi had a saying: I hope the child is stupid and rude, and he will come to Gongqing without any disasters.
Being confused is not stupidity, but being calm on the surface, but in fact has a well-thought-out plan.
To behave in the world, knowing how to pretend to be confused with understanding is the real wisdom.
Ji Xianlin once said:
Life is alive, sometimes it is necessary to be smart, but it is also necessary to be confused.
To be confused is not to be unclear, but to see through without saying anything, to dare to show weakness, and to have a calm mind.
Great wisdom is like stupidity, great ingenuity is like clumsiness, those seemingly confused people are actually really smart people.
Be indifferent to the warmth and coldness of human feelings, let go of caressing about gains and losses, live in the world with a leisurely and free attitude, and behave with humility and open-mindedness.
In the second half of life, the heart should be simple and the person should be confused. Share with friends~
有人说，人活一世，就得活得通透。也有人说，人活一世，就得半醒半迷半率直，半痴半醉半天真，半真半假半糊涂。
下等人装聪明
中等人装实在
上等人装糊涂
人生在世，有时的确需要聪明，但更少不了糊涂。
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