A few days ago, the Network Security Review Office conducted a network security review of Micron’s products sold in China in accordance with the law.

The review found that Micron's products have relatively serious potential network security issues, which pose a major security risk to my country's key information infrastructure supply chain and affect my country's national security. For this reason, the Network Security Review Office has made a conclusion that the network security review should not be passed. According to the "Network Security Law" and other laws and regulations, operators of critical information infrastructure in China should stop purchasing Micron products.

The purpose of this network security review of Micron's products is to prevent product network security issues from endangering the security of the country's key information infrastructure, which is a necessary measure to maintain national security. China firmly promotes high-level opening up to the outside world. As long as it abides by Chinese laws and regulations, companies from all countries and various platforms are welcome to enter the Chinese market.

From May 18th to 24th, "Gathering in Gaoping·Sounding the China—Chinese Clapper Conference" was held in Suzhuang, Xi Town, Gaoping, with Hu Meiling, a famous Henan opera artist, He Saifei, a famous Shaoxing opera and film and television artist, Li Dongqiao, a famous Qin opera artist, Qi Aiyun and other famous opera artists competition judges. On May 21, what He Saifei said at the competition site angrily criticized the status quo of the industry and cheered for the inheritance of opera art, which moved people to tears and rushed to the hot search.

In the second group competition of the "Chinese Clapper Conference", a Shanxi opera actor named Zhang Junbo from Luliang, Shanxi performed "The Breeze Pavilion". The performance was very successful, but the experience was extremely rough. He was favored by the provincial group and came to Taiyuan. His monthly salary was only 1,500 yuan. He has always been a temporary worker. His wife and three children still stay in his hometown. Sometimes he can only go back once a month. Delivering food to subsidize the family, and insisting on performing on stage with a 39-degree high fever on drip, his lover half-jokingly said several times that he wanted to divorce him.

When the host Bai Yansheng described his situation, his eyes were filled with tears and his voice choked up, "Every head of the academy should treat such good young actors well. We always say that the future of opera lies in youth, so what's the use of shouting slogans? Someone needs to escort such an excellent actor, only young actors will have a future, and only operas will have a future!"

Afterwards, He Saifei appealed loudly in the judges' seat: "If such an artist is not protected, if he is not given basic survival, who will he give it to?!"

She said in a hoarse voice with tears in her voice: "You said that it is for the cause and the construction of Chinese opera. How can there be so many noble ideas? He is just a hobby. He likes it. He likes it from the bottom of his heart... The revitalization of opera is really not for shouting. He is an artist!... You keep saying that the Plum Blossom Award and the Wenhua Award cost so much money to put together a play, and after winning the award, it is put in a warehouse, and ordinary people can't see it. What about the play? What about the money? Where did you go?"

After this video was posted on the Internet, it aroused strong sympathy among netizens.

Some netizens said that some troupes really place great importance on awards now, and the creation and rehearsal of many new plays cost a lot of money, but they are shelved after the awards and ratings, and the repertoires performed on the stage are still repertoires from many years ago.

Some netizens also pointed out: The country has actually invested a lot in the revitalization of national culture, but those who really need it can’t use it, and those who really love it have to endure poverty. What’s the problem?

Some netizens suggested that the revitalization of traditional culture does require further innovation, and spread it to young people in more trendy and fashionable ways, so as to attract more people to listen and learn.

Once upon a time, it was a childhood memory for many people to save their pocket money for a week and go to Xu Liushan with their classmates and friends. But now, Xu Liushan, like many first-generation catering internet celebrities, has faded out of the public eye.

Why did the "King of Desserts" decline?

Shenzhen store closed

There is no more Xu Liushan in Shenzhen.

On the afternoon of May 16, a reporter from Nandu·Wan Finance Agency came to Xu Liushan's store in Nanshan Shenzhen Bay Science and Technology Park. This is also Xu Liushan's last store in Shenzhen.

The storefront of about 40 square meters is divided into two, half of which is the front field for order reception, and half of which is the back field for meal preparation. Through the closed glass door, it is not difficult to see Xu Liushan's "highlight moment" in the heyday of the store through the relatively clear decoration in the store.

On the two black-bottomed walls in the store, the development history of Hui Liushan is described in the form of colorful paintings: from the "Special Guiling Jelly" and "Hsu's Ice Room" in the 1970s, to the "first in Hong Kong" in the 1990s, and then to 2000 Landmarks of Shanghai, Guangzhou, Shenzhen, Macau in 2010.

In contrast, there are outdoor tables and chairs covered with thin dust outside the store. The "highlight moment" hand-painted on the black wall is in stark contrast to the empty storefront.

Searching for "Xu Liushan" on a review platform, only Xu Liushan Catering Management (Shenzhen) Co., Ltd. was left in Shenzhen, and a visit to the address showed that it was a decoration company. The reporter called the public telephone number of the company's registration information, but no answer was answered.

"This store has been closed for a month or two." According to the property management staff next door, Xu Liushan's store business has been quite deserted before.

Several new tea shops within one kilometer

And the straight-line distance from Xu Liushan is less than 100 meters, and a Naixue PRO store is opened on the side of the street. And within one kilometer of Xu Liushan's Shenzhen Bay Science and Technology Park store, there are four Naixue stores if you search for it.

The attack of new tea drinks and the retreat of time-honored dessert brands may tell the handover story of catering internet celebrities on another level.

Large-scale store closures in many places

In addition to Shenzhen, I searched for "Xu Liushan" on a certain platform and found that all stores in Chengdu have also closed.

Searching for Xu Liushan in Guangzhou also showed that it was closed.

At present, relevant stores have only been inquired in Beijing, Hangzhou, Sanya, Macau and other cities, and there is only one solitary store left.

According to a report from Nanfang + Shenhuoquan, in 2020, Xu Liushan in Hangzhou began to close its stores on a large scale, causing quite a stir in the local area. As of April 2020, most of the stores in Hangzhou have been closed. Later, in Shanghai and other cities, news of Xu Liushan's closing of stores also broke out one after another.

Xu Liushan's last franchise store in Yau Tong, Hong Kong will also officially close in November 2022.

In March 2020, the news that many Hui Lau Shan stores in the Hong Kong area closed one after another due to rent arrears and other issues became popular searches. At that time, Xu Liushan Catering Management (Shenzhen) Co., Ltd. posted a message on its official Weibo "Xu Liushan China": "Friends who like Xu Liushan, don't miss it. See you in our store when the epidemic is over." Stores were not affected.

However, Xu Liushan's official Weibo stopped updating on June 15, 2020, and the latest update time of the official WeChat public account stayed on December 24, 2020.

In the message area of Xu Liushan's last official Weibo, many netizens reported that Xu Liushan's membership account could not be logged in, there was no way to return the card, the customer service staff did not reply, and the balance in the card could not be spent.

Once relied on innovation to become a representative of Hong Kong-style desserts

"Let's visit Xu Liushan together, and we don't have to classify your high class and my low class..." In 2002, Twins' song "Friendship First" came out, which became popular among young people in the Mainland. For many post-80s and post-90s generations, Xu Liushan has become a classic memory of the era along with Hong Kong-style cultural symbols such as TVB, Hong Kong Music, and Jin Yong's novels. When it was hot, there was a long queue outside the store almost every day, and even if you went late, many hot-selling items were sold out.

Innovation used to be a business card for Xu Liushan to enter the public eye.

In the 1950s, a Guangdong Puning Chinese medicine doctor named Xu Liushan made a living selling tortoise jelly on the streets of Hong Kong;

In the 1960s, Xu Liushan died of illness. His son opened a shop in Yuen Long, named "Hui Liushan". This shop no longer sells Guiling jelly, but sells herbal tea. endless stream;

In the 1980s, Xu Liushan innovatively launched desserts and snacks in traditional herbal tea shops. In order to cater to customers, Xu Liushan also arranged many TV sets and record players in the store for the guests to watch and take pictures, and won a lot of attention. many customers and compliments;

In 1992, Hui Lau Shan fully transformed into a Tangshui shop, and set off a wave of desserts with the first mango sago in Hong Kong, creating a "mango world" and becoming one of the famous cards of Hong Kong's gourmet food in one fell swoop;

In 2000, the cup-packed fresh fruit refreshing special drink was launched, creating a new model of takeaway drinks.

In 2004, Xu Liushan entered the mainland market, successively opened many branches in Shenzhen, Guangzhou, Shanghai, Hangzhou, Wuhan, Chongqing and other big cities, and advanced to East China and South China with Guangzhou-Shenzhen and Shanghai as bases.

Xu Liushan also extended his tentacles overseas, from entering Malaysia in 2012 to opening a store in Seoul, South Korea five years later, and then entering Singapore, Australia, the United States, Canada and other countries.

In its heyday, Xu Liushan had more than 300 stores around the world, and the store revenue was close to 500 million.

Why do classic brands decline?

Crazy expansion, Xu Liushan no longer has the surname "Xu"

Xu Liushan has changed owners three times.

In 2009, Xu Bingcheng of Xu Liushan's family sold all the shares of "Xu Liushan" to Navis Capital, an investment company in Malaysia, which allowed Xu Liushan to successfully enter the Malaysian market; Hui Liushan was fully acquired at a price of HK$500 million; on August 22, 2019, Yum China, the parent company of KFC and Pizza Hut, announced that it had acquired Huang Jihuang, and Xu Liushan changed hands again.

"Xu Liushan has recruited too many franchisees in the follow-up development process, and the management level of the franchisees is uneven, which leads to poor management." A catering industry insider pointed out that Xu Liushan opened up the franchise plan after being acquired by Huangtian International. Since 2016, most of the new stores opened by Xu Liushan are franchise stores. Many franchise stores are facing greater risks such as supply chain suspension and suppression of huge liquidity.

According to Tianyancha data, Xu Liushan's mainland affiliated company is Xu Liushan Catering Management (Shenzhen) Co., Ltd., which was established in 2008, and 39 of the company's 41 branches have been cancelled.

In 2011, Guangzhou Deng Liushan and Hong Kong Xu Liushan filed a lawsuit. "Deng Liushan" sued Hong Kong "Xu Liushan" and the original shareholder Xu Bingcheng, claiming that the two parties had signed a letter of intent for cooperation; Hong Kong "Xu Liushan" stated that Guangzhou "Deng Liushan" "It was only established in 2009. It did not change from the original direct-sale store, but came out of thin air. The dispute between "Xu" and "Deng" also reflects the loopholes of Xu Liushan's chaotic management and weak awareness of brand protection.

Can't keep up with the rhythm

From Guiling jelly to herbal tea shop to sugar shop, from mango sago dew to mango pancake to mango pudding, every step of transformation and upgrading of Xu Liushan and product development is quite innovative.

However, success is also mango, and failure is also mango. Since Xu Liushan created the "Mango Kingdom", he has been adhering to the classics, but in the ever-changing catering market, he seems a bit rigid. Industry insiders believe that perhaps the most important thing is the overall aging of products and brands. The classic Xu Liushan can't keep up with the fast pace of the times.

How do "time-honored brands" adapt to new consumption?

In recent years, there are not a few "time-honored brands" that have left the public eye.

Xianzong Lin, who became famous as the "first-generation restaurant Internet celebrity originator", will also close its last store in Guangdong at the beginning of 2021. Founded in 1991, swing seats, green garden decoration, fried tofu, wood bran cake, black diamond pearl milk tea, honey green tea... anything, it is the memory of the youth born in the 80s and 90s in Guangdong.

In May 2020, the store of the more than 20-year-old Xiangmihu Danguixuan was closed. This Dangui Restaurant, located in the Xiangxieli Garden in the luxury residential area of Xiangmi Lake, as a high-end restaurant opened for more than 20 years, once occupied a place on the list of "sighing tea" in Shenzhen.

Xu Liushan, Xianzonglin, Danguixuan, these names with a sense of presence are gradually being forgotten by the outside world, and time-honored brands also need to rethink how to adapt to new consumption. In fact, with the rapid development of the mobile Internet in the past ten years, Internet thinking has already deeply penetrated into the catering industry. Learning to follow hot spots and create concepts has become an essential skill for every catering brand.

The rapid rise of new tea drinks, coffee baking, and Chinese desserts has also given consumers more choices. Today's new tea drinks not only meet consumers' needs for taste, but also in terms of product appearance, emotion, and social interaction. And other aspects into the hearts of consumers in an all-round way.

In addition to relying on the experience of taste buds to retain consumers, restaurants have to face a problem: traffic is getting more and more expensive, how to change the traffic to "reserve", a group of new consumer brands must answer. Draining traffic from offline to online, from public domain traffic to private domain traffic, and tracing digitalization from the terminal to the upstream to improve industrial efficiency are all things new tea drinkers are doing.

A large number of netizens "remember to kill"

Xu Liushan closed the store again, which caused many netizens to recall the store they visited and the past time:

What memories do you have of Xu Liushan?

A few days ago, the Intermediate People's Court of Zigong City, Sichuan Province informed that on the morning of April 14, in accordance with the execution order issued by the Supreme People's Court, the Intermediate People's Court of Zigong City, Sichuan Province carried out the death penalty for the criminal Li Mou, who killed, buried, and extorted property according to law.

After the trial, it was found that in early December 2019, the criminal Li was looking for the target of the crime in Donghu Street, Fushun County, Sichuan Province. After preparing to kill, he wrote to the victim's relatives to extort property. Later, Li determined that the victim Peng (male, 10 years old at the time of death) was the target of the crime, bought tools such as hammers, gloves, and hoes, and dug a pit for burying the corpse in advance. At around 17:00 on the 31st of the same month, Li lured Peng, who was on his way out of school, to a forest in Gaoshi Village, Donghu Street. To bury in the pit. At about 4:00 am on January 6, 2020, Li came to the South Sichuan Intercity Railway Viaduct under construction near Gaoshi Village, put the written blackmail letter into Peng's schoolbag, and put the schoolbag under the bridge with a rope. Jiayuanba demanded 180,000 yuan from Peng's relatives in the name of kidnapping.

In addition, Li sneaked into the homes of villagers in Gaoshi Village, Donghu Street, Fushun County, Sichuan Province and a non-staple food store in Qilong Town, on January 8 and January 9, 2020, respectively, and stole mobile phones, cigarettes, cash and other items. After investigation by the public security organ, Li was arrested and brought to justice on January 10, 2020 in Dongda Street, Donghu Street, Fushun County.

The Zigong Intermediate People's Court held that the criminal Li deliberately killed a minor and then extorted property from the victim's relatives, and his actions constituted the crime of intentional homicide and extortion respectively; secretly stealing other people's property, the amount is relatively large, his behavior constituted the crime of theft, and should be counted as crimes And fine. Li's homicide crime is bad in nature, cruel in means, serious in circumstances and consequences, and a repeat offender. His subjective malignity is extremely deep and his personal danger is extremely high. He should be severely punished according to law. In the first instance of the Zigong Intermediate People's Court, the defendant Li was sentenced to death for intentional homicide and deprived of political rights for life; for extortion, he was sentenced to four years in prison and a fine of RMB 5,000; month, and fined RMB 2,000. It was decided to execute the death penalty, deprive him of political rights for life, and impose a fine of 7,000 yuan.

After the judgment of the first instance was pronounced, Li appealed. After the final ruling of the Sichuan Provincial Higher People's Court, the appeal was rejected, the original judgment was upheld, and it was reported for approval according to law. The Supreme People's Court ruled to approve criminal Li's death sentence.

A Liuzhou man was circumcised by a "routine" and he stabbed the doctor to death in a fit of anger!

Introduction

When the relationship between doctors and patients became so serious, it is really embarrassing and frightening. Last year, on July 1, 2022, in Liuzhou, Guangxi, there was an uproarious medical murder case last year. A patient armed with a fruit knife rushed into the doctor's office and stabbed him several times. The doctor died due to excessive blood loss and rescue failed.

judgment

After a year of heated discussions, on April 14, 2023, the People's Court of Liuzhou City, Guangxi finally ushered in the first-instance verdict on the "circumcision and stabbing to death of a doctor": Huang was guilty of intentional homicide and sentenced to life imprisonment, deprived of political The right is lifelong, and compensation for the economic and spiritual losses of the victim's family is 67,000 yuan.

cause

Huang suspected that he might be infected with a special virus because a small amount of granular unknown objects appeared in his genitals, so he found Liuzhou Yufeng District Hospital (A) on the Internet and got in touch with the receiving doctor Li XX. And make an appointment the next day to the hospital for examination. After Huang arrived at the destination with his parents on July 1, 2022, he went to the next-door (B) hospital. Huang asked the doctor at the reception desk if it was the hospital, but the doctor took him directly to the treating doctor Mei some here.

After a series of diagnoses, Dr. Mei believed that Huang's genital inflammation or fungal infection was caused by excessive prepuce, so he suggested that Huang should undergo circumcision. However, after Huang's circumcision operation, he was lying on the operating table. Dr. Mei told his parents that the operation was only half completed and needed to be normal. After waking up, Huang found that his father had paid a lot of money (2478 yuan, 6039.20 yuan, and 3600 yuan respectively) by mobile phone. At this time, he suddenly realized that he was cheated. TOLL. The more I thought about it, the more irritable I became, so I went to the hospital to ask for an explanation. There was no result in the argument, so Huang rushed to the fruit shop downstairs to buy a fruit knife while his father was going to buy water, rushed directly to Mei's office, and stabbed Mei several times. Nervous, silent, shivering, did not run away. In the end, Mei died due to excessive blood loss!

evaluate

Originally, the cost of circumcision can be solved with more than 1,000 yuan, but the routine patients cost tens of thousands of yuan. Wouldn't the conflict between doctors and patients break out? Huang stabbed a doctor with a knife, which is a regular violation of the law, but is the hospital not responsible for arbitrary charging and deception?

We sympathize with what happened to Dr. Mei, but Huang is even more regrettable. Indiscriminate charging routines, committing murder, in fact, the hospital should bear the main responsibility!

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courtship period:

Behind the "problems" of adolescent children

Adolescent children will have various problems, but if you study carefully, you will find that there are common laws among them. What are these laws? Let's look at a few classic cases of Milton first.

A teenage woman came to Milton because she vomited when kissing. After exploration, it was found that when she first had her period when she was 13 years old, her mother told her that sex was dirty in order to protect her. Her mother passed away in the same year, and her cognition of sex stayed in that year. The problem came when she grew up and started a relationship.

A girl with gaps in her front teeth dared not have sex with the opposite sex. Milton asked the girl to practice a skill, taking a sip of water from the gaps in her front teeth and shooting at the boy she liked. As a result, she fell in love with that boy up.

A girl with slow breast development was afraid to associate with the opposite sex because of low self-esteem. Milton gave her homework to prepare a large pack of fake breasts of various sizes, and often changed them so that her breasts changed from time to time. Attracted the attention of many boys, and finally, she found the boy she liked.

There are many similar cases, and these cases all have a common feature, that is, as they grow older, some new challenges appear in their lives. In the face of these challenges, those who adapt well will transition smoothly, and some people who adapt poorly There will be problems.

There are two types of young people who have problems at this stage:

One category is people who are starting to leave the mainstream life: because of the confusion of growing up, they deviate from the mainstream way of life.

For example, some children will wear nose rings and dye their hair to make their behavior different from the mainstream lifestyle. If he was in an art school where everyone was so individual, he wouldn't be prone to problems. But if he lives in a conservative family and is called a "little Taibao" by the people around him, he is prone to problems.

The other category is marginalized people who obviously deviate from society: due to physical defects or unfortunate families, etc., they are different from most people and cannot integrate into group life.

Regardless of whether they are these two types of young people, the courtship period is a sensitive period. The child grows up and is about to fall in love. Facing this brand new thing, some people will have fear, so they will produce various symptoms , For example: the boy who has a phobia of public buildings mentioned earlier.

Teenagers with physical defects are also prone to problems during courtship, such as girls with gaps in their teeth, girls who are obese, and so on. For such cases, Milton will use various methods to make them feel attractive, and sometimes use his identity as a man to confirm this, with the purpose of allowing patients to reshape their self-perception.

Facing a client with symptoms during the courtship period, Milton first considers the client’s self-image, that is to say, how he sees himself, including appearance, personality, etc. Whether a person is beautiful is not judged by outsiders. When something goes wrong with the evaluation, it produces symptoms.

The personality modification of young people during the courtship period is also an important task of Milton's treatment. Young people tend to have personality distortions due to physical reasons, such as too small breasts, obesity, cracked teeth, etc. Milton's strategy is to change the cognition of different parties according to their personality characteristics.

For example, for humorous girls, he will assign some interesting homework related to breasts, prepare a big bag with many fake breasts in it, and make jokes about boys, etc.

Marriage period:

How to get through the running-in period smoothly

The "Ms. Thursday" in the previous article encountered problems during the marriage period. Let me share with you a case of marriage.

A woman found Milton because her hands trembled involuntarily. Milton found that her trembling could be transferred from the left hand to the right through hypnosis, so he concluded that it was hysteria, which is a disease created by the mind.

Hysteria usually has a purpose. After investigation, it was found that her husband was unemployed at home and was unwilling to look for a job. Her hands were shaking and she couldn't work, so her husband had to go to work. After the husband returned to work, the wife's symptoms disappeared.

In another similar case, there was a lady who suffered from repeated attacks of gastrointestinal diseases, and no treatment was effective. After understanding, she found that she didn't like her parents-in-law to come to her small home, but her parents-in-law would often visit the young couple's house, and every time she got sick, it was when her parents-in-law came.

After discovering this secret, Milton gave her a proactive suggestion. When her parents-in-law came to the door again, she drank a lot of milk and then vomited all over the floor. The parents-in-law had to leave when they saw this situation .

After this situation was repeated several times, the in-laws stopped coming to the door. Miraculously, her gastrointestinal problems also healed.

During the marriage period, common problems are: sexual barriers, physical and mental disabilities, dereliction of duty by one spouse. The above cases fall into these categories.

Milton believes that when we enter the marriage period, we have to face a way of two people living together. This way of life is brand new, and it is inevitable that we will encounter some difficulties. At this time, one party will use symptoms to solve the difficulties.

From the perspective of the family life cycle, the goals of treatment at this stage are: to help young couples stabilize their relationship and to help them transition to having children.

Birth and Upbringing:

Why some people are afraid of having children

A woman's reluctance to have children bothered her husband. At the repeated request of her husband, she came to Milton's clinic.

During the chat with her, Milton learned that this lady had experienced a painful childhood, which left a shadow in her heart. She did not want her children to experience the same childhood as hers, so she did not want to have children.

For this case, I believe you are smart and already know how to treat it. In the previous strategy ten "Forgetting and Information Control", we have learned that a person's memory of the past will affect the current decision, and changing the memory can change the decision.

Through the strategy of "forgetting and information control", Milton awakened some of her forgotten memories during the hypnosis process, allowing her to see that her childhood also had a beautiful side, but she selectively forgot it. When she regained some of the good memories, she no longer feared parenting.

Over the next few years, Milton received news of the births of several of her children.

People who experienced misfortune in childhood, when they reach this life cycle, the most likely problem is that they dare not have children.

Of course, the problems at this stage are far more than the ones explained in the book.

Based on the counseling experience of the team leader in the past, various problems will arise at this stage. For example, parents will transfer the suffering they have suffered to their children, parents will transfer their unfulfilled wishes to their children, and parents will transfer their unfulfilled wishes to their children. I will transfer my own model to the children, etc., so I won’t expand here one by one. Friends who are interested can read the books of the group leader.

Dilemmas in Marriage and Family:

power struggle in relationship

The main problem with this cycle is a power struggle between husband and wife.

Remember the case of the phoenix man mentioned earlier? The case in which he tried to gain his wife's approval through risky means because he had no status in the family was a case of power struggle.

Everyone needs their own sphere of power, a field in which they can have the final say. If this part of your partner is not satisfied in an intimate relationship, he will compete with you for power, and he will fight for who has the final say on trivial matters. This can destroy relationships.

All animals form hierarchies, and the dilemma of marriage is that humans want husbands and wives to be equal, but it becomes a question of who should listen to whom.

Some wise couples divide the spheres of power, listening to the husband in some areas and the wife in others. Difficulties often arise for couples who don't set boundaries.

The direction of dealing with this kind of problem is to find a way to balance power so that both husband and wife can gain their own autonomy.

Separation of parents and children:

it's important to realize

In India, there is an ancient ritual in which mothers start preparing their children when they are five years old. Every year on a special day, mothers make offerings to Guru, the spiritual leader of the Brahmins, starting with fruits, and then to more precious fruits, to Metals, from iron to copper, then to gold, and the final ultimatum is the son.

This ritual helps the mother to achieve a transformation that frees her beloved son from her body.

Why do you want to do this?

There are many kinds of love in this world, and most of them are aimed at union, but the love of parents for their children is aimed at separation. When a child grows up, he needs to be independent from his parents. Only after completing this process can he grow from a child to an adult.

Unfortunately, this is not an easy task. Many parents cannot accept the fact that their children leave their side, because the departure of children means the disappearance of the role of "parent". In order to maintain this identity, some parents will Create problems so that the child cannot grow up and be independent from himself.

Here's a scary truth: sick people have problems, and many times it's the family that needs someone with a problem.

In this way, parents can continue to take care of their children in the role of parents. In order to maintain the role of parents, they will do everything possible to prevent their children from growing up. They refuse to establish an adult relationship with their children. Children become sick.

For example, some parents will say: "No, my child is prone to panic attacks, and he can't go out to work." In fact, such parents make their children sick.

So, the most destructive parents are not those who abuse their children, but those who spoil and protect their children so that they do not grow up to be independent.

The separation of parents and children is very important, but most parents do not realize it. I hope that you who have read this can share this truth and let more parents understand this. One more parent who understands this truth, one more healthy child.

Retirement and old age

By this cycle, people have reached their old age, and a series of unsolvable problems will inevitably arise, such as disease, death, and feelings of worthlessness.

Facing the pain of old age, Milton often uses hypnosis to make the old man feel less pain during the dying period through hypnosis.

An old man suffering from a malignant tumor had only half a month to live. His family found Milton, hoping to relieve his pain for half a month through hypnosis instead of only using anesthetics.

Milton did not mention anything about the disease to the old man.

Instead, with a soft and joyful voice, he said to the old man:

"Honey, I love talking to you, and I know you love flowers and you're a gardener. Today I'm going to tell you about growing tomatoes, and you might think why we're talking about growing tomatoes... you know, that little The seeds of the tomato slowly swell and grow, and send out small buds with thin cilia on it. Don't underestimate the cilia, it is an indispensable existence for the growth of tomatoes, it makes the seeds turn into plants, break through the ground, and bear fruit... "

During the whole process, in his hypnotic words, there is only how a tomato grows and bears fruit. The old man's subconscious mind can receive these life signals. Although he is only a gardener and has never raised tomatoes, these plants are all living things in his eyes.

How precious and beautiful the breath of life is...Thinking of this, the torment of illness seems not so unbearable...

Later, the old man's condition deteriorated and he passed away. He lived for 4 months longer.

At this point, I have finished talking about the treatment methods for different life cycles, and everyone is clear about Milton's thirteen strategies. Thank you for seeing this all the way, and following this interesting and loving journey with the team leader.

epilogue

This book classifies the treatment strategies of the hypnotist Milton into 6 different life periods and 12 treatment strategies. Of course, Milton's strategies are far more than this. If you agree with Milton's treatment philosophy, or hope If you change yourself in this way, you can study related psychology courses.

However, because the psychological field generally opposes this method of intervention, most psychological experts advocate that through the method of companionship, the client can be aware of himself and choose to change independently.

Therefore, judging from the experience of more than 20 psychological schools that the team leader has personally studied, the two schools that retain the most about Milton's strategy are the two schools of strategic family therapy and NLP. The founder of strategic family therapy, that is, The author of this book, Haili, is no longer alive, and this kind of treatment has not been developed in China, so NLP is the most suitable for everyone to learn.

You are also welcome to read this book. I hope you understand that it is not only through pain and suffering that you can be saved. As long as you have the determination and courage to change, even if you feel that everything is not ready, the cases in this book will give you a better understanding. to the meaning of your revelation.

Bless you, on the way to change your life, complete the brave leap.

日前，网络安全审查办公室依法对美光公司在华销售产品进行了网络安全审查。

审查发现，美光公司产品存在较严重网络安全问题隐患，对我国关键信息基础设施供应链造成重大安全风险，影响我国国家安全。为此，网络安全审查办公室依法作出不予通过网络安全审查的结论。按照《网络安全法》等法律法规，我国内关键信息基础设施的运营者应停止采购美光公司产品。

此次对美光公司产品进行网络安全审查，目的是防范产品网络安全问题危害国家关键信息基础设施安全，是维护国家安全的必要措施。中国坚定推进高水平对外开放，只要遵守中国法律法规要求，欢迎各国企业、各类平台产品服务进入中国市场。